"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need help quitting smoking.......

speed dawg

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Chantix and all that other crap won't work.

I like smoking too much. It makes me feel like crap when I smoke too much, but on the whole I like it. Gives me a way to 'get away' from whatever I'm doing at the time and take a break, whether it be a social function, long day at work, etc. Gives me something to do when I'm on the cell phone. I love smoking when I drink and play golf. I love smoking while I drive long distances (which I frequently have to do for work).

Ideas? Really the only reason I even want to quit is because it's so bad for you.

I wonder if there's such a thing as smoking in moderation? Wonder if there's some statistics that say so many cigarettes is what raises your chances for cancer?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Amjad

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Hi speed dawg,
Few tips on how to quit smoking:
Make a plan to quit smoking and stick with your decision,
Buy a saving jar and keep the money you would spend on ciggerates.
Give yourself reward by planning for a treat with this money,
Keep your teeth clean,
Visit your doctor and get support from him.
 

fivestarplayer

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Cold Turkey is the only legit way. I was like you and had no desire to quit smoking. I smoked for 4 years. When I went through basic your not allowed to smoke at all for 9 weeks. It was hell, I was goin through withdraws, detox, and feening like a mofo. On top of dealing with the stress of dealing with all the dumb bs they like to play there.

When I finally made it out I had a few smokes at tech school but I didn't pick it back up(no desire too.) Havnt had a cigg in 2years. I'd blaze before I smoked another cig.
 
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