"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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denverfan110

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Hey guys,

Long story short, Christmas is coming up and I want to know if I should buy my current plate a gift.

Quick back story (some of you may remember from previous thread). Met back in the summer, had a really solid 2 months of relations (sex included) but then I went away for 4 months to study abroad. Just got back a few weeks ago and we've hit it off really well again and I'm pretty sure we're heading towards a relationship.

-Neither one of us have told the other we love each other (though attraction is SUPER high. Been fairly frontal about that)
-Talks about exclusivity have not come up (but I think its implied we're kinda together sort of - using the advice on this website, im waiting for her to bring it up as that will always end better for me :cheer: )
-I'm not sure she's gonna get me anything (we havn't talked about it) but she might, who knows

Her birthday already passed us during this time period but I didn't get her a present because she was just only a side plate at the time.

The gift wouldn't be a huge price tag. Just a $15 pair of soft socks with a cute pug on them (she really likes dogs).

So, dons, yay or nay? Not together yet, but might be soon. Are Christmas presents too soon?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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El Suave

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Why not. If it's only $15 dollars it's worth it. It would be a nice thing to do for Christmas for anyone. And let's say she doesn't get you anything, she'll feel bad and you get to own her body that day.
 

denverfan110

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El Suave said:
Why not. If it's only $15 dollars it's worth it. It would be a nice thing to do for Christmas for anyone. And let's say she doesn't get you anything, she'll feel bad and you get to own her body that day.
Thx for the reply.

Anyone else? Just don't want to show too much affection too quickly.
 

TheGambino

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Go for it, you can get her something in your situation, nothing expensive though, just something fun for her to remind you. 10-15 bucks max indeed
 
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