"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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denverfan110

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Hey guys,

Long story short, Christmas is coming up and I want to know if I should buy my current plate a gift.

Quick back story (some of you may remember from previous thread). Met back in the summer, had a really solid 2 months of relations (sex included) but then I went away for 4 months to study abroad. Just got back a few weeks ago and we've hit it off really well again and I'm pretty sure we're heading towards a relationship.

-Neither one of us have told the other we love each other (though attraction is SUPER high. Been fairly frontal about that)
-Talks about exclusivity have not come up (but I think its implied we're kinda together sort of - using the advice on this website, im waiting for her to bring it up as that will always end better for me :cheer: )
-I'm not sure she's gonna get me anything (we havn't talked about it) but she might, who knows

Her birthday already passed us during this time period but I didn't get her a present because she was just only a side plate at the time.

The gift wouldn't be a huge price tag. Just a $15 pair of soft socks with a cute pug on them (she really likes dogs).

So, dons, yay or nay? Not together yet, but might be soon. Are Christmas presents too soon?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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El Suave

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Why not. If it's only $15 dollars it's worth it. It would be a nice thing to do for Christmas for anyone. And let's say she doesn't get you anything, she'll feel bad and you get to own her body that day.
 

denverfan110

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El Suave said:
Why not. If it's only $15 dollars it's worth it. It would be a nice thing to do for Christmas for anyone. And let's say she doesn't get you anything, she'll feel bad and you get to own her body that day.
Thx for the reply.

Anyone else? Just don't want to show too much affection too quickly.
 

TheGambino

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Go for it, you can get her something in your situation, nothing expensive though, just something fun for her to remind you. 10-15 bucks max indeed
 
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