Need help please :) much appreciated...

[Jack-Torrance]

Okay so I know a girl who I really like who likes me back...

BUT

I get all shy when I even think about asking her out (very out of character)... is there something I could do that would get her to make the first real move?

I really don't want to screw her up... (I didn't mean screw her up as in the good way lol)...

Thank you for your time

 

[Plec07]

It's not her job to make the first move, so don't expect it.

You said you get shy when you think about asking her out, so don't think about it, just do it.

If you think asking her out is very out of character for you (I'm assuming you mean asking her to be your gf, not out on a date here so correct me if i'm wrong) then just kiss her out of the blue using the triangle-gaze method (left eye, right eye, lips, kiss).

If you don't have the confidence to kiss her out of the blue then use the method Mystery describes in the book 'The Game' by Neil Strauss and say "Do you want to kiss me?" what to do depending on her reaction are as follows:

Yes - *Move in for the kiss*
Maybe - say "well let's find out" *Kiss*
No - say "I didn't say you could, you just looked like you had something on your mind" and either continure building rapport or begin to leave (when she realises she's missed her chance for that night she may change her mind).

If you need more help add me on AIM: Plec07

 

[Jack-Torrance]

Thanks Plec You have helped me or replied to nearly every post I have made

 

[Plec07]

Anytime dude, if I have meaningfull advice I'll always offer it. Like I said add me on AIM and lemme know how it goes

 

[jmm854]

If you know she likes you back whats the problem. Being shy gets you nowhere. Not just with women, but especially with women.

Who has the ball sack here again, her or you? I'm beginning to think neither.

 

[Jack-Torrance]

If you know she likes you back whats the problem. Being shy gets you nowhere. Not just with women, but especially with women.

Who has the ball sack here again, her or you? I'm beginning to think neither.

******* true mate ... lol apart from the last bit... I hope!

 

[nicenomore]

...is there something I could do that would get her to make the first real move?

Dont even wait..just do it....

Why do you wait for her , when you can do the job yourself??? If she likes you , just open , the rest should follow well......

The more you wait , the more you kill yourself in anticipation.....trust me mate , just do it...high time now....