"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Okay so I know a girl who I really like who likes me back...

BUT

I get all shy when I even think about asking her out (very out of character)... is there something I could do that would get her to make the first real move?

I really don't want to screw her up... (I didn't mean screw her up as in the good way lol)...

Thank you for your time :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's not her job to make the first move, so don't expect it.

You said you get shy when you think about asking her out, so don't think about it, just do it.

If you think asking her out is very out of character for you (I'm assuming you mean asking her to be your gf, not out on a date here so correct me if i'm wrong) then just kiss her out of the blue using the triangle-gaze method (left eye, right eye, lips, kiss).

If you don't have the confidence to kiss her out of the blue then use the method Mystery describes in the book 'The Game' by Neil Strauss and say "Do you want to kiss me?" what to do depending on her reaction are as follows:

Yes - *Move in for the kiss*
Maybe - say "well let's find out" *Kiss*
No - say "I didn't say you could, you just looked like you had something on your mind" and either continure building rapport or begin to leave (when she realises she's missed her chance for that night she may change her mind).

If you need more help add me on AIM: Plec07
 
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Anytime dude, if I have meaningfull advice I'll always offer it. Like I said add me on AIM and lemme know how it goes :up:
 
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If you know she likes you back whats the problem. Being shy gets you nowhere. Not just with women, but especially with women.

Who has the ball sack here again, her or you? I'm beginning to think neither.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jmm854 said:
If you know she likes you back whats the problem. Being shy gets you nowhere. Not just with women, but especially with women.

Who has the ball sack here again, her or you? I'm beginning to think neither.
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******* true mate :)... lol apart from the last bit... I hope!
 
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Jack-Torrance said:
...is there something I could do that would get her to make the first real move?
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Dont even wait..just do it....

Why do you wait for her , when you can do the job yourself??? If she likes you , just open , the rest should follow well......

The more you wait , the more you kill yourself in anticipation.....trust me mate , just do it...high time now....
 
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