Need help please.. good advice

[nek08]

So, I like this girl in my class, but I havn't spoken to her in class yet, maybe once, since we aren't really grouped that much together, but I speak to her over FB and stuff and I don't think this is a good thing, so i need some advice on what to do

 

[rtb227]

try to talk to her before class starts or after class, it will show you have some confidence. Talking to a girl on fb does not show that, anyone can do that. The only thing is when you talk to her act laid back, it's something girls like and it also shows some value when you do that because the girl will think he "since he's not acting too energetic, he can probably get other girls. People always want what they think they can't get.

 

[nek08]

thanks =) yeah i will, but sometimes i just wimp out lol, i notice that we seem to be glancing at each other from time to time in class, so we'll see

 

[rtb227]

Don't think about failure or anything like that, it just brings down your confidence. Just talk about anything and if it seems like she's flirting ask her to do something, don't go straight into asking her to go out with you unless you're sure she'll say yes. If you don't know don't ask it shows neediness.

 

[nek08]

hmm something like what?

 

[rtb227]

something like going to the mall, something nonthreatening, maybe a group thing, see if she has fun and go from there