"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So, I like this girl in my class, but I havn't spoken to her in class yet, maybe once, since we aren't really grouped that much together, but I speak to her over FB and stuff and I don't think this is a good thing, so i need some advice on what to do
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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try to talk to her before class starts or after class, it will show you have some confidence. Talking to a girl on fb does not show that, anyone can do that. The only thing is when you talk to her act laid back, it's something girls like and it also shows some value when you do that because the girl will think he "since he's not acting too energetic, he can probably get other girls. People always want what they think they can't get.
 
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thanks =) yeah i will, but sometimes i just wimp out lol, i notice that we seem to be glancing at each other from time to time in class, so we'll see
 
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Don't think about failure or anything like that, it just brings down your confidence. Just talk about anything and if it seems like she's flirting ask her to do something, don't go straight into asking her to go out with you unless you're sure she'll say yes. If you don't know don't ask it shows neediness.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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something like going to the mall, something nonthreatening, maybe a group thing, see if she has fun and go from there
 
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