Need help! Plate will come over today, but "only drink, no sex"

[Lion1985]

She just send me message that she accept to visit me today but only for drinking
What should i write her back?
How to handle this correctly and get layd finally?
Or if she says only come over to drink = no chance for sex?
Need help from experts, thanks!

 

[Tictac]

Outcome dependence like yours will drive you nuts.

Relax.

 

[MtnMan]

i would just say 'ok', have her come over, drink with her and escalate as usual.
If a woman comes to your home and drinks with you, sex is usually an option. Do not pay attention to the words, watch the actions. Have you had sex with her before? This sounds like a **** test. I would ignore and push on with what I wanted.

 

[Comatozed]

Oldest trick in the book.

I've had one say 'if you come round im being honest i'll probably just go straight to sleep im tired'... just agree and know full well it's bull****.

 

[MOTU]

I agree with with all above. It's her anti slut defense. Get a few in her and escalate slowly.

Don't tell her you want sex; show her. Always demonstrate what you want through actions, not words.

 

[TheGambino]

I agree with with all above. It's her anti slut defense. Get a few in her and escalate slowly.

Don't tell her you want sex; show her. Always demonstrate what you want through actions, not words.

Thats the trick..

 

[apprenticedj]

I usually send something back at them like "Whoa slow down, I'm not THAT easy!"

 

[MtnMan]

i think its better to just ignore and press on.

 

[Lion1985]

Update:

I tried to escalte several times, including small Freezout after LMR, no chance, only KC...
I finally told her to leave.. (she couldtn believe I sayd that -> really? really? .-> Yes! Ciao!), I hold frame, she left.., im very curious if she will text me..

 

[MtnMan]

Update:

I tried to escalte several times, including small Freezout after LMR, no chance, only KC...
I finally told her to leave.. (she couldtn believe I sayd that -> really? really? .-> Yes! Ciao!), I hold frame, she left.., im very curious if she will text me..

good work man. Keep us updated on the sitch.

 

[Mr Wright]

Update:

I tried to escalte several times, including small Freezout after LMR, no chance, only KC...
I finally told her to leave.. (she couldtn believe I sayd that -> really? really? .-> Yes! Ciao!), I hold frame, she left.., im very curious if she will text me..

Even if she did, I wouldn't bother, she actually stuck by her word on that one so just leave it. Can't win 'em all.

 

[asa_don]

she isn't a plate when you're not fvcking her

no need to give her free booze if she isn't going to open her legs, opening her mouth for alcohol doesn't cut it, that makes you a chump who is being used.

you don't hold "any frame" when you aren't getting laid, she is denying you sex, you only hold your d!ck instead, that is holding no frame, she holds "the frame".

you sound like a troll as well man, just saying.

 

[nismo-4]

Update:

I tried to escalte several times, including small Freezout after LMR, no chance, only KC...
I finally told her to leave.. (she couldtn believe I sayd that -> really? really? .-> Yes! Ciao!), I hold frame, she left.., im very curious if she will text me..

She expected you to beg, but you didn't. But she's still in control and she is keeping you as a friend (beta orbiter). Don't hold your breath on her texting you. I'll wager $1000 that she doesn't.

If you aren't banging her, that's not a plate, that's being her girlfriend. Accept that you have failed here and move on.

Case closed.

 

[mangotot]

Well done for escorting her to the front door and not being a *****.