"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need help picking out VS pajamas for female

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Taviii

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I find girls in boxers very hot, especially if they are my boxers.
 

Smack

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You're sending the wrong ideas by giving her pyjamas. If she's staying over I don't see why clothes need to be involved.
 

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Smack said:
You're sending the wrong ideas by giving her pyjamas. If she's staying over I don't see why clothes need to be involved.
Damn right!

It ain't your job to reward a girl in hoping to sleep with you by enticing her with PJ's. You keep this up and she will learn that she can get alot more from you with her pvssy then just PJ's.

AF77 said:
The last time she came over she had to wear my hideous boxers and they looked retarded. This is just an easy lead to her staying over again and a cheap yet somewhat sexual gift..
She should be sleeping naked anyways and if she doesn't want to then she should keep some of her cloths in your house in advance.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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