"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alright, thig is theres dis 1 gal i like n she likes me bak .
Ima make this quik

We met long time ago, both likes each other, 1 time she asked me if i liked her (long time ago) i said deres sum1 else, den afta while we met again chilled talked n all that n started talking more then usual n getting more personal until i told her i loved her n askd her out she said Yes but only after a "brreak" because alot of guys broke her heart so she dosnt want to go out wit ne1 anymore.

is there anything i can tell her that will get her to just go out n hav sum fun with me or is this normal. any info would be great

Hope this isnt too long

Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i cant undastan 1 f***ing fing u jus sed.
 

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Yeah, that was kinda tough to wade through....


But telling her that you loved her makes it game over.

And her saying "Yes, but after a break" means "No".


If you want her to go out and have some fun, say "Lets go out and have some fun"
and then HAVE fun, don't be telling her that you love her etc.

Trying to talk her into being with you is never going to work.
 

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You live in canada eh?? Last time i checked they spoke french and/or english, not that sh!t you typed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thx fo da tips The_Shezzler
Ima b sure 2 use em
especially bowling n goin 2 chill dere
 

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i love it when guys not only talk like ganstas, but they TYPE like them too!

you guys are so cool! :up:
 

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Ne1 got nething else, maybe how shud i start a convo nex time, like wa do u guys, that dont hav a gal.. ok let me explain this ezly.

wa shud i talk about 2 her nex time n how shud i start off, she aint been answering lately at all

Props
 

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Originally posted by LG-unit
Ne1 got nething else, maybe how shud i start a convo nex time, like wa do u guys, that dont hav a gal.. ok let me explain this ezly.

wa shud i talk about 2 her nex time n how shud i start off, she aint been answering lately at all

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I would start off by using some form of English, or failing that, just don't open your mouth at all and use hand signals to get the point across.

Just start with small talk and work your way up.
 

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wow dis crazy fly. let me pull up in dat grille n smak dat munkay. Dam dis uh sexay tread. bicch i no yo didt oh yo dit.

That was really hard to type. And I know people that even talk like that. Lol. Telling a girl that you love her isn't really bad it mostly depends on the girl and I know every girl is different. Some girls are serious when they say they want to take a break and some girls are just saying it because they are dissing. You really have to judge the situation yourself. But this is normal for the highschool drama. You have to judge the situation yourself. Not every girl just wants a tough guy though most do. Some girl don't like games and hard to get but rather want a relationship and are relationship addicts. Which could explain the heartbreak. You really have to judge the situation yourself.

Tell me: How many times did I say you have to judge the situation for yourself. Because it's true. Just don't get despairing or anything because if she didn't like you she would of LJBF you or something more garunteed to get the point across that she doesn't want to date you. But you did tell her that you love her and now prepare to suffer the consequences. MUHAHAHA
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by LG-unit
Ne1 got nething else, maybe how shud i start a convo nex time, like wa do u guys, that dont hav a gal.. ok let me explain this ezly.

wa shud i talk about 2 her nex time n how shud i start off, she aint been answering lately at all

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DUDE, F*CKING TYPE LIKE A NORMAL HUMAN BEING. STOP BEING A DAMN TOOL!!!
 

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alllright dere, thanks for all da answers, can a moderator please close this thread?????
 
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