"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Alright, thig is theres dis 1 gal i like n she likes me bak .
Ima make this quik

We met long time ago, both likes each other, 1 time she asked me if i liked her (long time ago) i said deres sum1 else, den afta while we met again chilled talked n all that n started talking more then usual n getting more personal until i told her i loved her n askd her out she said Yes but only after a "brreak" because alot of guys broke her heart so she dosnt want to go out wit ne1 anymore.

is there anything i can tell her that will get her to just go out n hav sum fun with me or is this normal. any info would be great

Hope this isnt too long

Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i cant undastan 1 f***ing fing u jus sed.
 

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Yeah, that was kinda tough to wade through....


But telling her that you loved her makes it game over.

And her saying "Yes, but after a break" means "No".


If you want her to go out and have some fun, say "Lets go out and have some fun"
and then HAVE fun, don't be telling her that you love her etc.

Trying to talk her into being with you is never going to work.
 

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You live in canada eh?? Last time i checked they spoke french and/or english, not that sh!t you typed.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thx fo da tips The_Shezzler
Ima b sure 2 use em
especially bowling n goin 2 chill dere
 

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i love it when guys not only talk like ganstas, but they TYPE like them too!

you guys are so cool! :up:
 

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Ne1 got nething else, maybe how shud i start a convo nex time, like wa do u guys, that dont hav a gal.. ok let me explain this ezly.

wa shud i talk about 2 her nex time n how shud i start off, she aint been answering lately at all

Props
 

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Originally posted by LG-unit
Ne1 got nething else, maybe how shud i start a convo nex time, like wa do u guys, that dont hav a gal.. ok let me explain this ezly.

wa shud i talk about 2 her nex time n how shud i start off, she aint been answering lately at all

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I would start off by using some form of English, or failing that, just don't open your mouth at all and use hand signals to get the point across.

Just start with small talk and work your way up.
 

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wow dis crazy fly. let me pull up in dat grille n smak dat munkay. Dam dis uh sexay tread. bicch i no yo didt oh yo dit.

That was really hard to type. And I know people that even talk like that. Lol. Telling a girl that you love her isn't really bad it mostly depends on the girl and I know every girl is different. Some girls are serious when they say they want to take a break and some girls are just saying it because they are dissing. You really have to judge the situation yourself. But this is normal for the highschool drama. You have to judge the situation yourself. Not every girl just wants a tough guy though most do. Some girl don't like games and hard to get but rather want a relationship and are relationship addicts. Which could explain the heartbreak. You really have to judge the situation yourself.

Tell me: How many times did I say you have to judge the situation for yourself. Because it's true. Just don't get despairing or anything because if she didn't like you she would of LJBF you or something more garunteed to get the point across that she doesn't want to date you. But you did tell her that you love her and now prepare to suffer the consequences. MUHAHAHA
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by LG-unit
Ne1 got nething else, maybe how shud i start a convo nex time, like wa do u guys, that dont hav a gal.. ok let me explain this ezly.

wa shud i talk about 2 her nex time n how shud i start off, she aint been answering lately at all

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DUDE, F*CKING TYPE LIKE A NORMAL HUMAN BEING. STOP BEING A DAMN TOOL!!!
 

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alllright dere, thanks for all da answers, can a moderator please close this thread?????
 
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