"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need help on what to do next~ wierd situation

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So this awesome thing happened today. After school I was sitting in the bus (yeah i ride the bus so what), and there's another bus next to us, and theres this really good lookin girl sittin there. Damn she was like a 8.5 or 9! She looked ****ing good!
So I look at her and she looks at me and I give her a little nod &some other stuff & then the guy in the seat behind her says something to her and she takes a moment & then holds up a notebook & it says'My name is Christina' on it and I give her a wave and she puts her hands on the window & mouths 'what your name?' AND THEN THE ****IN BUS PULLS AWAY!
So i was kinda pissed but its okay.
So anyway what should I do next time i see her?
I'm sure the anwer's really obvios and I'm just retarded but i need your help guys.
Thanks in advance!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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if u see her again, introduce urself formally.

make some small talk and... you know the rest :)
 

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Buick said:
So this awesome thing happened today. After school I was sitting in the bus (yeah i ride the bus so what), and there's another bus next to us, and theres this really good lookin girl sittin there. Damn she was like a 8.5 or 9! She looked ****ing good!
So I look at her and she looks at me and I give her a little nod &some other stuff & then the guy in the seat behind her says something to her and she takes a moment & then holds up a notebook & it says'My name is Christina' on it and I give her a wave and she puts her hands on the window & mouths 'what your name?' AND THEN THE ****IN BUS PULLS AWAY!
So i was kinda pissed but its okay.
So anyway what should I do next time i see her?
I'm sure the anwer's really obvios and I'm just retarded but i need your help guys.
Thanks in advance!

Question isn't retarded man its a damn good one at that.

Ok i presume this girl goes to your school, In this instance already you have huge IOI she told you her name IN WRITING! when she was on ANOTHER BUS!

Ok that for PUA is a immensly killer opener (guys take not this girl kicks ass)

The IOI is there all you need to really do is be cool with this chick, Don't over game her and hit her with strawberry fields, Negs DQs and all that Jazz just be a cool laid back mother****er.

Straight off the bag this girl opened YOU we know she wants you, All you need to do is say "Hey, hows it going?...cool Listen that was soo ballsy what you done the other day really outgoing, thats sexy. We should hang out"

Play from there my man.
 

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Write down you want her phone number/e-mail or something.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Demo said:
Question isn't retarded man its a damn good one at that.

Ok i presume this girl goes to your school, In this instance already you have huge IOI she told you her name IN WRITING! when she was on ANOTHER BUS!

Ok that for PUA is a immensly killer opener (guys take not this girl kicks ass)

The IOI is there all you need to really do is be cool with this chick, Don't over game her and hit her with strawberry fields, Negs DQs and all that Jazz just be a cool laid back mother****er.

Straight off the bag this girl opened YOU we know she wants you, All you need to do is say "Hey, hows it going?...cool Listen that was soo ballsy what you done the other day really outgoing, thats sexy. We should hang out"

Play from there my man.
This guy has the right idea. She already wants you guy. YOu know that . play it cool and just talk to her like any other person. Although "Hey, hows it going?...cool Listen that was soo ballsy what you done the other day really outgoing, thats sexy. We should hang out"Is a killer line to start with. do that and take it from there.
 
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