"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need help on what to do next~ wierd situation

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So this awesome thing happened today. After school I was sitting in the bus (yeah i ride the bus so what), and there's another bus next to us, and theres this really good lookin girl sittin there. Damn she was like a 8.5 or 9! She looked ****ing good!
So I look at her and she looks at me and I give her a little nod &some other stuff & then the guy in the seat behind her says something to her and she takes a moment & then holds up a notebook & it says'My name is Christina' on it and I give her a wave and she puts her hands on the window & mouths 'what your name?' AND THEN THE ****IN BUS PULLS AWAY!
So i was kinda pissed but its okay.
So anyway what should I do next time i see her?
I'm sure the anwer's really obvios and I'm just retarded but i need your help guys.
Thanks in advance!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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if u see her again, introduce urself formally.

make some small talk and... you know the rest :)
 

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Buick said:
So this awesome thing happened today. After school I was sitting in the bus (yeah i ride the bus so what), and there's another bus next to us, and theres this really good lookin girl sittin there. Damn she was like a 8.5 or 9! She looked ****ing good!
So I look at her and she looks at me and I give her a little nod &some other stuff & then the guy in the seat behind her says something to her and she takes a moment & then holds up a notebook & it says'My name is Christina' on it and I give her a wave and she puts her hands on the window & mouths 'what your name?' AND THEN THE ****IN BUS PULLS AWAY!
So i was kinda pissed but its okay.
So anyway what should I do next time i see her?
I'm sure the anwer's really obvios and I'm just retarded but i need your help guys.
Thanks in advance!

Question isn't retarded man its a damn good one at that.

Ok i presume this girl goes to your school, In this instance already you have huge IOI she told you her name IN WRITING! when she was on ANOTHER BUS!

Ok that for PUA is a immensly killer opener (guys take not this girl kicks ass)

The IOI is there all you need to really do is be cool with this chick, Don't over game her and hit her with strawberry fields, Negs DQs and all that Jazz just be a cool laid back mother****er.

Straight off the bag this girl opened YOU we know she wants you, All you need to do is say "Hey, hows it going?...cool Listen that was soo ballsy what you done the other day really outgoing, thats sexy. We should hang out"

Play from there my man.
 

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Write down you want her phone number/e-mail or something.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Demo said:
Question isn't retarded man its a damn good one at that.

Ok i presume this girl goes to your school, In this instance already you have huge IOI she told you her name IN WRITING! when she was on ANOTHER BUS!

Ok that for PUA is a immensly killer opener (guys take not this girl kicks ass)

The IOI is there all you need to really do is be cool with this chick, Don't over game her and hit her with strawberry fields, Negs DQs and all that Jazz just be a cool laid back mother****er.

Straight off the bag this girl opened YOU we know she wants you, All you need to do is say "Hey, hows it going?...cool Listen that was soo ballsy what you done the other day really outgoing, thats sexy. We should hang out"

Play from there my man.
This guy has the right idea. She already wants you guy. YOu know that . play it cool and just talk to her like any other person. Although "Hey, hows it going?...cool Listen that was soo ballsy what you done the other day really outgoing, thats sexy. We should hang out"Is a killer line to start with. do that and take it from there.
 
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