"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alright, so I picked up this girl last week at a restaurant (she was a hostess) and got her digits and immediately started talking over the weekend. Everything is going fairly well and suddenly she stopped responding the following week (Mon) to my text message (text ended with me asking a question and she never responded back). I obviously tried to initiate again with another and no luck so I stopped messaging and let it be. Now me and my buddies at work are going again today for lunch at the same restaurant and my chances of seeing her are very likely. Any advice on how should I approach this if I see her. Im thinking of just letting it be and see what she says to me and act as if nothing happened.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just be polite but nothing more. Dont bring up anything about texting and why she didnt respond. Shes not interested.
 
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TheException said:
Just be polite but nothing more. Dont bring up anything about texting and why she didnt respond. Shes not interested.
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That's what I figured, but its just weird that it went from hot to cold (i know i didn't screw anything up via text). Usually, they slowly let you off and not completely drop it if they aren't interested lol.
 
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poetic.mind said:
Alright, so I picked up this girl last week at a restaurant (she was a hostess) and got her digits and immediately started talking over the weekend. Everything is going fairly well and suddenly she stopped responding the following week (Mon) to my text message (text ended with me asking a question and she never responded back). I obviously tried to initiate again with another and no luck so I stopped messaging and let it be. Now me and my buddies at work are going again today for lunch at the same restaurant and my chances of seeing her are very likely. Any advice on how should I approach this if I see her. Im thinking of just letting it be and see what she says to me and act as if nothing happened.
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Why didn't you ask her what time she was getting off of work, then tell you to accompany you for drinks?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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@cword - Yepp definitely made some rookie mistakes then LOL, but considering she's 20 and im 25, I thought it would be easier gamee...

@Rex - I had some plans that tentative plans that night (which is cancellable), and I also thought I would seem to eager if I did ask her to accompany me for drinks after....
 
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TheException said:
Just be polite but nothing more. Dont bring up anything about texting and why she didnt respond. Shes not interested.
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Don't ask her anything. Pretend as if nothing happened, say hi when you see her, smile but don't waste your time on her.
 
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