"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Alright, so I picked up this girl last week at a restaurant (she was a hostess) and got her digits and immediately started talking over the weekend. Everything is going fairly well and suddenly she stopped responding the following week (Mon) to my text message (text ended with me asking a question and she never responded back). I obviously tried to initiate again with another and no luck so I stopped messaging and let it be. Now me and my buddies at work are going again today for lunch at the same restaurant and my chances of seeing her are very likely. Any advice on how should I approach this if I see her. Im thinking of just letting it be and see what she says to me and act as if nothing happened.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just be polite but nothing more. Dont bring up anything about texting and why she didnt respond. Shes not interested.
 
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TheException said:
Just be polite but nothing more. Dont bring up anything about texting and why she didnt respond. Shes not interested.
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That's what I figured, but its just weird that it went from hot to cold (i know i didn't screw anything up via text). Usually, they slowly let you off and not completely drop it if they aren't interested lol.
 
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poetic.mind said:
Alright, so I picked up this girl last week at a restaurant (she was a hostess) and got her digits and immediately started talking over the weekend. Everything is going fairly well and suddenly she stopped responding the following week (Mon) to my text message (text ended with me asking a question and she never responded back). I obviously tried to initiate again with another and no luck so I stopped messaging and let it be. Now me and my buddies at work are going again today for lunch at the same restaurant and my chances of seeing her are very likely. Any advice on how should I approach this if I see her. Im thinking of just letting it be and see what she says to me and act as if nothing happened.
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Why didn't you ask her what time she was getting off of work, then tell you to accompany you for drinks?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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@cword - Yepp definitely made some rookie mistakes then LOL, but considering she's 20 and im 25, I thought it would be easier gamee...

@Rex - I had some plans that tentative plans that night (which is cancellable), and I also thought I would seem to eager if I did ask her to accompany me for drinks after....
 
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TheException said:
Just be polite but nothing more. Dont bring up anything about texting and why she didnt respond. Shes not interested.
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Don't ask her anything. Pretend as if nothing happened, say hi when you see her, smile but don't waste your time on her.
 
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