Key 1: Look your best
Yes that means lose the man boobs, shave and wear nice cloths. If you look like sh*t you fell like, well you get the point. It’s not about looking like Brad Pitt or George Clooney you can only work with what you got so it’s about looking the best you possibly can. So stop cloths shopping at Target, brush your teeth and for fu*ks sake get rid of that green sh*t under your finger nails.
Key 2: Do things that make you happy
What makes you happy? (Insert answer)…….OK now do it. You have to do things that make you happy; confidence is all about being happy. So make a point of taking some time out everyday and doing something that makes you happy.
Key 3: Body Language
Get your dam hands out of your pocket, stop slouching, stop walking like a zombie and get that stupid frown of your face. Body language relates directly to every emotion you feel. When a person has negative feelings towards someone they will cross there arms we probably all know that, but did you know that if you cross your arms when you are cold you will start getting negative feelings just because your arms are crossed.
Think about it man, next time you are out in public walk like a confident person would walk. Put your arms down by your side, have your hands open, keep a straight face (you don’t want to smile too much) and walk with your head held high.
Key 4: Goals
You need to have goals you can work towards, give yourself something to do in life or else you will just be floating waiting to die.
Key 5: TV is the Devil
Ok I’m not saying to never watch TV again but try to cut down a little. Advertising is designed to makes us feel bad about ourselves so we buy the product to fill the void that they create in our lives. Her is an example “You are loser you can’t get women but hey look at this guy drinking coke he is a winner he is surrounded by hot half naked women”. Now you know coke won’t get you women but subconsciously it hit’s you, you see an attractive guy surrounded by women when you see **** like this 200 times a day it destroys your confidence.
Key 6: Talk to people
Go shopping to buy some cloths and talk to the store attendant. Take every little opportunity you can to talk to people, even get a job as a bar tender or a waiter, join a sporting team basically try to push your self into social situations. The more you talk to people the easier it will become. This will help you be a lot more outgoing it's all practice practice PRACTICE.
Key 7: The mirror is your friend
Hahahaha I’m crazy right? Just stay with me for a little longer. Every night before you jump into bed look in the mirror and tell your self “ I am confident, I am attractive, I am a MAN and any women on this world would want me because I am the perfect package” or somesh*t like that.
Sounds crazy but this works………
Key 8: NO MORE PORN
In porn you see perfect people, having perfect sex in the perfect setting. What do you do then? You search for perfection and when you search for perfection you are settign your self up for failure.
