"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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need help on girl from school

The_Unit

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i am pretty new and i need some help from you, the dating experts. i'm just a regular joe, but i know what i like and what i do not. I dont use fancy tricks or psychology. i like to play football and video games.

i recentnly met a girl and took a liking to her. we started out pretty casual but its escalated faster than i expected.

Shes been:
1)telling me she likes me
2)touching me lots
3)giving me gifts
4)asking whos calling my cell
5)generally caring
6)compliments me for being sincere, etc.

i dont have her number but she asked for mine one day :)
i feel good cuz its the beginning of something wonderful here. But my problem is I have trouble interpreting signals. I dont usually pay attention to these things nor do i like to think much about them. i just do what feels right to me. when it comes to this kind of mushy stuff, i'm as dumb as a post though. anything short of "i love you" said outright, and i will prolly miss it.

oh btw i havent asked her on a date yet, though she keeps telling me she knows all kinds of wonderful places she wants to take me to. and valentines day is fast approaching.

Frankly, its a pretty big jumble to me.

1) any pointers/what do you folks think.

2)would the "hot cold" technique be viewed as offensive by a woman?

3) what if a woman applies the "hot cold" back?? just like football i dont like my strategies being used against me.

thanks guys
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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