"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need help making a move....

Malekith

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Hey guys, so I have been really good friends with this girl for a while now. As of late we've been hanging out a LOT. I have always wanted to make a move but was worried and hesitant to do so.

So I'm asking, can you guys help me out on HOW to make the actual move? And possibly give me an idea of how/when I should make the move...

Also, discussing it wouldn't be the best idea (just by knowing her, it has the potential to me more awkward if I were to be rejected vs making a move on her).


Thank you guys
 

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Johnnyventana

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I would start with kino and see if she reciprocates. Also, add alcohol.
 

thevilittletroll

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dont make a move on her, she will see it as weird, cause you have been friends for so long. it will blow up in your face. game another chick in front of her see if she gets jealous, if not you have no chance.

tip for the future: when you meet a girl, kino escalation should start at hello, and continue up to sex. you will lose more girls by not making the move earlier than if you make no move at all. when you build attraction and make no move on her she starts to see you as a p.ussy with no confidence and loses attraction for you. all the work you did is now flushed down the toilet and it really hard to get it back. so take more chances, and take them earlier than you would normally. even if she rejects you kino move she will not lose any attraction you built.
 
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