Hi guys, I've been a lurker for a while made some changes and had better success. Anyways I have a bit of trouble with kino, especially when I'm alone with a girl. Let's say I'm alone with a girl on a couch, or a bed watching a movie. How, and where (body part) should I go about making the first move? Also is it appropriate to use kino when others, like her female friends are around?
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Need help making a move (kino)
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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ready123
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google the Dicarlo escalation ladder. then at least you'll have a structure in your head
and kinoing around friends is situational - if you're just starting out, don't do it, especially the overt stuff. isolate first
and kinoing around friends is situational - if you're just starting out, don't do it, especially the overt stuff. isolate first
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Do the old school method - pretend like you are tired and do a fake yawn, while at the same time stretching out your arms and putting your arm around her shoulder.
SharinganUser
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Just relax. Put your arm arround her, or try to hold her hand. But don't just hold it. Play with it like rubing it or something.
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Just rub the top of her shoulders with a firm massage, works or me. On the couch bit, you sit first, put your arm over the back, this is an invite signal.
When you massage shoulders, ask if she had a hard day because they're 'tight'.
When you massage shoulders, ask if she had a hard day because they're 'tight'.
