"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Need Help! (Long Story)

SoCal12345

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I have a very bad case of oneitis. i am 16 years old. There is this one special girl i know that i really like but i dont know what to do to get her to be attracted again. It was going good during december but i think she lost her interest. She is one of the girls that most people from her school likes. She just naturally is social and fun to be with. The first month we met, she had one of my friends pursuing her so I did not make any moves but whenever she talked to me she kept eye contact and came in really close . She eventually asked me to her school formal dance and it went decently well she told her friends that she thinks im cute and wanted to go with me. I kissed her on the cheek during a slowdance and she had no response. I've been getting many mixed signals. When we went on a double date to the movies, i was scared to do anything but eventually i finally put my arm around her. She responded by holding my hand and making other moves on me. I didn't kiss her this time either even though i realized later on i could have. It was all going pretty well and we chatted alot over facebook during nights and video chatted too. It was going good as she replied fast and we had fun but friendly conversations. Sadly, my friend told her that i liked her alot without telling me. She said that i'm a good guy but she isn't looking for a relationship and she is taking a break from these things. This wasn't the first time she said this before. This guy who was pursuing her a month earlier was told this by her as well. But this guy was a creeper who nobody liked in our whole school. my friend asked if she would ever consider a relationship with me and she said "maybe i guess". After that we hung out a few times over the break.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DanZy

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You didn't need to explain, this is such a typical situation. Leave her, go get other girls. It's taken so much time that you've probably missed your shot. Go out more, interact more with girls and hit the gym.
 

LearningSlowly

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She isn't brave enough to tell you no. Not interested and you weren't confident enough to take her.
 
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