Hey guys,
this is my first post, have been perusing some of the posts here and found interesting stuff - I'm a guy with I guess fairly good game, always have enough ladies at hand etc. I did not want any LTR for the last couple of years because picking up new girls was so easy - usually in the 7-8 region, sometimes a 9. I remained pretty cool with the girls, always.
Now it's happened to me (duuuuhh) - met a HB 10 at an event, every guy there was into her, but somehow she was into me (didn't even have a good game that night actually LOL), well anyway, we ended up in bed, was really cool and we hit it off extremely well on other parts of human-relations-spectrum too, always laughing, good eye-contact, etc.
Now the problem - we saw each other for two days then she had to leave for home: she is not from my place, is only reachable via plane (in reasonable time though), and she said she wants a boyfriend by her side and not somewhere else. She did (obviously) consider a relationship with me in her mind, but then said it's crazy, and she won't respond if I write her emails.
But she gave me all her contact data (and it's also for real, no fake). So I think it is just a "test" to see how stubborn I am. I have written twice now (within three days), no response, as expected.
My question: what should I do? Write every day? Only twice a week? Try to call her? Fly over? Damn. I never thought I would be in this situation, as my natural reaction to such as situation would be: just go look for a girl near you instead of chasing phantoms.
But this thing really hit me - of course I need to get to know her better, but this is in the category marriage (I have never been married up to now and was resistant to the mere thought of it.) (BTW We are both well into our thirties)
Help would be greatly appreciated, I can't get a clear thought. And again, I am serious about her.
Cheers,
R
this is my first post, have been perusing some of the posts here and found interesting stuff - I'm a guy with I guess fairly good game, always have enough ladies at hand etc. I did not want any LTR for the last couple of years because picking up new girls was so easy - usually in the 7-8 region, sometimes a 9. I remained pretty cool with the girls, always.
Now it's happened to me (duuuuhh) - met a HB 10 at an event, every guy there was into her, but somehow she was into me (didn't even have a good game that night actually LOL), well anyway, we ended up in bed, was really cool and we hit it off extremely well on other parts of human-relations-spectrum too, always laughing, good eye-contact, etc.
Now the problem - we saw each other for two days then she had to leave for home: she is not from my place, is only reachable via plane (in reasonable time though), and she said she wants a boyfriend by her side and not somewhere else. She did (obviously) consider a relationship with me in her mind, but then said it's crazy, and she won't respond if I write her emails.
But she gave me all her contact data (and it's also for real, no fake). So I think it is just a "test" to see how stubborn I am. I have written twice now (within three days), no response, as expected.
My question: what should I do? Write every day? Only twice a week? Try to call her? Fly over? Damn. I never thought I would be in this situation, as my natural reaction to such as situation would be: just go look for a girl near you instead of chasing phantoms.
But this thing really hit me - of course I need to get to know her better, but this is in the category marriage (I have never been married up to now and was resistant to the mere thought of it.) (BTW We are both well into our thirties)
Help would be greatly appreciated, I can't get a clear thought. And again, I am serious about her.
Cheers,
R
