"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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need help. im good online but not off

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ok, well, yea ummm im good at talkin to girls online, but when im like talking to girls in person i get like really quiet and i dont know wat to talk about and even when were online, theres most stuff to talk about than to talk in person, in my case, and i dont know, but since im mexican, and im still sort of learning english, i get some words like mixed up and i cant even pronounce them right! lol ummm some help at that? i also cant talk like really loud, i dont know y, i try all of the stuff ive talked about in here, like talking to girls, obviously talk in english, and i try talkin loud, but i cant, when i do, people cant understand **** that i say and i make like a new voice or something, its weird, need help, thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't talk online, use everything you would talk about online in person.
 

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well ummm i dont know, its cause im good at talkin to girls online, so theres this whole bunch of girls that want to meet me lol but i cant even talk right to them! and the girls at skool, i dont even talk to them online but i just talk to them in skool
 
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Originally posted by snoop8
well ummm i dont know, its cause im good at talkin to girls online, so theres this whole bunch of girls that want to meet me lol but i cant even talk right to them! and the girls at skool, i dont even talk to them online but i just talk to them in skool
so whats the problem here if your able to talk to girls at school?
 

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Learn. Read the bible. Uninstall your messenger.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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