"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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need help. im good online but not off

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ok, well, yea ummm im good at talkin to girls online, but when im like talking to girls in person i get like really quiet and i dont know wat to talk about and even when were online, theres most stuff to talk about than to talk in person, in my case, and i dont know, but since im mexican, and im still sort of learning english, i get some words like mixed up and i cant even pronounce them right! lol ummm some help at that? i also cant talk like really loud, i dont know y, i try all of the stuff ive talked about in here, like talking to girls, obviously talk in english, and i try talkin loud, but i cant, when i do, people cant understand **** that i say and i make like a new voice or something, its weird, need help, thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't talk online, use everything you would talk about online in person.
 

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well ummm i dont know, its cause im good at talkin to girls online, so theres this whole bunch of girls that want to meet me lol but i cant even talk right to them! and the girls at skool, i dont even talk to them online but i just talk to them in skool
 
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Originally posted by snoop8
well ummm i dont know, its cause im good at talkin to girls online, so theres this whole bunch of girls that want to meet me lol but i cant even talk right to them! and the girls at skool, i dont even talk to them online but i just talk to them in skool
so whats the problem here if your able to talk to girls at school?
 

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Learn. Read the bible. Uninstall your messenger.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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