"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Need help i have a hot roomate =D

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Throw in the sister line...

"You know, you are pretty cool. You remind me of my sister. We're great friends."

"You know, you are pretty cool. If I had a sister I would want her to be just like you - an awesome friend."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Pathgen said:
ok so i said i would post an update here it is:

yesterday when i was making dinner she came out and started to talk to me. I ended up treating her like a guy and just talking to her. I had No interest in attracting her.

The problem is she is attracted to me. She isnt obvious, but she smiles, plays with her hair, and is kinoing me left and right.

Its getting hard for me not to try and tap that. I really want too and i have all the green lights.

So my question is how do you turn down a girls interest level and just become friends. I mean i get that being an AFC will end the interest, but declaring my love to her and writing her poetry will just freak her out so i cant overdue it... Anyone know the fine line?
dude if she wants you just go for it. What the hell are you waiting for? Man some people are just so dumb. Who cares if you live with her.

Obviously it could get awkward but why does that matter. At least you screwed her.
 

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Throw in the sister line...

"You know, you are pretty cool. You remind me of my sister. We're great friends."

"You know, you are pretty cool. If I had a sister I would want her to be just like you - an awesome friend."
Thanks that just might work
 

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I spilled beer on her dresser at a party ;D. She didn't really get mad though instead she playfully got mad at me because she knew it was an accident. She is still giving me IoI's, but im not doing anything. Maybe thats why they are still coming. I thought that if i backed off of her she would eventually lose interest, but i think it pulls her closer.

Anyhow, its too soon to really call and if i dont do anything hopefully i wont get into a bad situation.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Haha I can see a repeat of 1984 about to happen if he goes for it...

How exactly did that conclude? Reading that was like reading a juicy magazine article.
 

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Befriend her, for now.
But if shes showing interest then I see no harm in starting something.

If all goes bad, just be a mature adult and end it off on a good note. Things will even out eventually.
 
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