"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need help i have a hot roomate =D

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Throw in the sister line...

"You know, you are pretty cool. You remind me of my sister. We're great friends."

"You know, you are pretty cool. If I had a sister I would want her to be just like you - an awesome friend."
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Pathgen said:
ok so i said i would post an update here it is:

yesterday when i was making dinner she came out and started to talk to me. I ended up treating her like a guy and just talking to her. I had No interest in attracting her.

The problem is she is attracted to me. She isnt obvious, but she smiles, plays with her hair, and is kinoing me left and right.

Its getting hard for me not to try and tap that. I really want too and i have all the green lights.

So my question is how do you turn down a girls interest level and just become friends. I mean i get that being an AFC will end the interest, but declaring my love to her and writing her poetry will just freak her out so i cant overdue it... Anyone know the fine line?
dude if she wants you just go for it. What the hell are you waiting for? Man some people are just so dumb. Who cares if you live with her.

Obviously it could get awkward but why does that matter. At least you screwed her.
 

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Throw in the sister line...

"You know, you are pretty cool. You remind me of my sister. We're great friends."

"You know, you are pretty cool. If I had a sister I would want her to be just like you - an awesome friend."
Thanks that just might work
 

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I spilled beer on her dresser at a party ;D. She didn't really get mad though instead she playfully got mad at me because she knew it was an accident. She is still giving me IoI's, but im not doing anything. Maybe thats why they are still coming. I thought that if i backed off of her she would eventually lose interest, but i think it pulls her closer.

Anyhow, its too soon to really call and if i dont do anything hopefully i wont get into a bad situation.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Haha I can see a repeat of 1984 about to happen if he goes for it...

How exactly did that conclude? Reading that was like reading a juicy magazine article.
 

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Befriend her, for now.
But if shes showing interest then I see no harm in starting something.

If all goes bad, just be a mature adult and end it off on a good note. Things will even out eventually.
 
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