“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheGambino

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Hi brothers,

It's been a while since my last post.
Everything is going pretty well. Decided to work less in september, live on a smaller pay check and finally complete my last year to graduate for university, I have to do it, it's only 1 year of hard work. (For the people that followed my story there) But this post is not about that.

I've been very active on the dating scene the last couple of months.

I work out, eat as clean as I can whilst enjoying good food once a while.

I got a couple of questions and some advice will be in this post about succes and progress I make.

This post is specially about plate number 2, HB7, since I went NC today. I got 2 serious plates who I fvck on the regular, a HB6 that has sky high interest and a HB7 that I had a string with today over text. Next to that I got a date with a HB9 this saturday. I'll start with her. I was succesfull to get her out this saturday, and she is very picky because I know who she is, she hanged out with my friends and me years ago and went to college in another city so I didn't see her for years, she vanished but I never had a fling with her or anything just brief contact. She knows me and my history though, nothing romantic. She knows that I hang out with two HB9s that were in my class that like me. She knows they are high class ladies that are very picky and saw me on snapchat partying with them and having drinks at their houses. This probably sparked her interest too.

She came in the store I work to buy a bathroom randomly without knowing that I work there I think.

I helped her like I help all my clients and gave her and her sister and mother full attention with my knowledge and sales abilities. Ofcourse as the Don Juan I am today I kept eye contact, and flirted silently. Be a man, I kept by that life rule, I always nowadays.

After that I shot her a text and she told me playfully ''your not being professional right now''. I ignored it and ran intoo her like faith decided that to happen in a club. She is a salsa dancer, a amazing body, a great face, taller then me and has her masters degree in Psychology. She works as a psychologist. Ideal woman for me to settle. This is what I look for in a lady.

She ran intoo the shop twice for a long time to discuss the materials and the price, I didn't settle the deal because she wasn't 100% sure yet and I left her to decide.

Anyway in the club she was having fun like she always has with her friends. I played it perfectly all night. Didn't look for attention too much, showed her my dance moves (im pretty good) and negged her with. ''you dance pretty well for a white girl" Lot of smiling, brief touching and grabbing her hand for a dance a couple of times, did the smelling. I gave her sister and her friend attention too in the club and they approved. They were all chatting me up and having fun with me.

She came by a couple of times to say stuff like ''I lost all of my friends'' I comforted her by telling her too hang out with me and we flirted and had fun all night. When she left I didn't check up on her too much or acted needy at all. I hugged her goodbye though. Great.

Then faith helped me even more!

I went out before going home and plate number 1 (HB6) spotted me out of the blue on the streets and was drunk. She ran over, hugged me, kissed me, was delighted to see me and oh yeah! HB9 walks out of the club sees me hugging and kissing and I see her all mad walking away, thinking that I didn't notice her.

The next day she comes to the store (late, we already had an appointment before seeing her in the club) I looked at my best, and served her mom and her like a man again. She bailed.

A couple of days later I shoot her a text and she replies on facebook, you got my number right? Text me if you want to chat with me. (And now she adds me on whatsapp) Brief chats on whatsapp and I ask her out for next week. She waits 2 days and she finally accepts with Yeah!! Sounds fun!!
''Where will you be taking me?'' I replie with ''Club x or A'' She says omgg in club x my sparkles started with dancing salsa! dudududud

Ok nice.

I ask her for specific time, location. And then she waits 3 days to replie with Ok ill be there then after an hour I get this. ''Hey we should get some fun people to come with us''
(I hated ofcourse, but despite everyone on here saying low interest, well guys it happened before a couple of months ago with a girl that brung her friend, and managed to rock their nights, isolate my date and make out all night with her.
It could be digging me out if im trying to isolate her to eventually have cex or whatever)

Anyway I replied with ''Hmm I don't think you can handle all of my company anyway haha'' she replies ''well not so sure about that''. And agrees with time and location saturday. We didn't talk about bringing people anymore and were setted. Silent from then.

So were set. I be fun, challenging, asking her lots of questions so that she has to do her best to fullfill my needs, dance, have fun and suggest to bring her to my crib in the end. But im excited, I have to be carefull because this chick is 100% what I look for in a main chick/wifey.

HB6, we can be short about her.

Great face, kinda fat body. Fvcks and svcks for hours. Drops by my house whenever I want, Ive been kinda egoistic with her, and again, Im acting like a real man. She diggs it, she talks about exclusivity sometimes and started with contraception for me. Told her to go to the gym and work on her body. She's not ready to be taken to public places where people who I know see me, not hot enough. I got this player image right now, can't destroy it.

Ok finally the problem. (Not really but I like to keep free cex and company around and shes pretty hot)

HB7. Asked her out on FB text, made out with her 10 years ago lol on my 16th. Didn't see her for ages. She told me can't right now we have contact in about a month or so, im busy. (more in detail and more feminine then I just worded out). Replied with ok no problem.

Finally went for drinks with her, had fun, bailed.

We keep contact on text to hang out but it didn't happen to quick until we meet up in a club. Flirt, escalate, end on her couch, fvck her brains out, buy a morning after pill and have breakfast. Cex was AWESOME, she loved it.

Then the problem. Texting.

She texts me just to text. I ask her out, she agrees, then rescheduled twice. Friday she texts me ''Why are you replieying so weird on text?'' I ignored that.

Ok, today again she texts what im doing and I replied with '' chilling at friends'' and waited hours to replie because I was busy. Then she says ''Why are being so dry with me...?'' Ignored that. (I dont ignore her all the time, sometimes I just say im good and you? and we have stupid small convo's about nothing, I just try to keep it short and set up a date but she wants to text)

I replie to her with ''Hey I promised to cook for you, lets do that sometime this week'' She replies

Her: Well see
Her: Like we are doing now I don't think it will work..

I replied with. Hey *name I just don't like having convo's on text all day, if you want to hang out with me lets just meet up otherwise it doesn't work indeed'' She waits 2 hours and replies ''Oki''

NC imo but wtf...

Next to this, Im always looking for new plates in the weekends, having fun with old girls I know, and making out sometimes with pass girls I don't connect with afterwards. I quit showing off girls on snapchat since I got 2 serious girls in my rotation now. They won't like it.

All your thoughts are welcome here! If you want to ask me something go ahead.

PS: I dealt with a great deal of women now in my days, I would be dreaming of this 5 years ago. DREAMING. Now I think im doing pretty well but Im not pleased yet. This DJ lifestyle probably works the same as making money. Once you start to be succesfull in being a business man you won't be pleased easy, you will always will be hungry for more and make progress while doing so. Keep up the work guys.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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IT annoys me that no one replies here. Everyone is busy playing Plato, Aristoteles and Jesus about How women think and act. Start making Some poste about real life situations on the field with rapports like mine. Instead of quoting James bond, corey Wayne or Einstein to and having deep convos and discussions about that to win Some kudos here..
 
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It's pretty easy. You try to use a "one size fits all method" and it didnt work. Adjust your approach/methods to your targets if you want to have success with women who aren't with that style. Or don't, and you won't need to worry about them.
 

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Shrink your posts down man. Way too much info.

I didn't have time to read it all but it smells like oneitis.

Don't take it the wrong way, but you always seem to get hung up on one chick thus the reason behind most of your posts.
 

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Shrink your posts down man. Way too much info.

I didn't have time to read it all but it smells like oneitis.

Don't take it the wrong way, but you always seem to get hung up on one chick thus the reason behind most of your posts.
No oneitis, been there, done that. HB7 is not attractive in my book. She didn't want to svck for a long time and she only spreaded her legs. Next to that she's not intelligent or passionate about interesting things, not much connection too. Only hard cex. She's too simple.

I got options, great date with a dime this weekend and some I could hang out with too so... your misjudging this case.

I just post as much as possible about girls that lose interest or throw me something I don't like to learn from it so I don't make new mistakes with new ones, that's learning not oneitis.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Still looking for a real DJ who actually gets out to give me thoughts and ideas so I can improve my game even more.
 
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