need help gettng a shy girl to open up

[duffman360]

can anyone give me any advice on getting a shy girl to open up and talk about herself

 

[BongDuy]

it can be tough, but I found that if you both have common friends, you can hang around them with that shy girl. As you talk to your common friends, you can include the shy girl, and try to get her to open up.

If she really is truely shy, and not just trying to avoid you, you shouldn't expect to kino much. Give her high fives and hugs when you see her, but only if you think its appropriate

 

[duffman360]

problem with ur advice

i just met this shy girl on the bus which she takes every morning and i happens to be the same one i take every morning and we go to different schools so we dont have any common friends.

 

[Jmiah]

Yeah duffman i know where your coming from, i just got out of a year long relationship with an extremely shy girl. It all boils down to her confidence I believe. Of course try to make an approach and talk to her, but most important is to find out if she has a worthwhile personality underneath it all. If she's shy and still doesn't have anything interesting to talk about its not worth it.