"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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need help gettng a shy girl to open up

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duffman360

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can anyone give me any advice on getting a shy girl to open up and talk about herself
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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it can be tough, but I found that if you both have common friends, you can hang around them with that shy girl. As you talk to your common friends, you can include the shy girl, and try to get her to open up.

If she really is truely shy, and not just trying to avoid you, you shouldn't expect to kino much. Give her high fives and hugs when you see her, but only if you think its appropriate
 
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problem with ur advice

i just met this shy girl on the bus which she takes every morning and i happens to be the same one i take every morning and we go to different schools so we dont have any common friends.
 
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Yeah duffman i know where your coming from, i just got out of a year long relationship with an extremely shy girl. It all boils down to her confidence I believe. Of course try to make an approach and talk to her, but most important is to find out if she has a worthwhile personality underneath it all. If she's shy and still doesn't have anything interesting to talk about its not worth it.
 
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