Need help getting this athletic chick..
Here is the back story:
I am a slender confident male who is a computer nerd and in a social fraternity.
She is an athletic female, with a baseball player boyfriend.
I met her through a friend of mine and we have hungout, while I have fixed her computer for free (yes I know, this is a no no). I would say I am an 8/10 in the DJ skills department, and she can see the skills permeating off me, she has even commented on my confidence yesterday, even though helping her for free is semi-AFC. But, whatever, so last nite we went out to the bar, the ***** ended up being an hour and a half late, I waited for her initially, then left to go to the bar. She called me while i was there and her friend dropped her off. She was looking fine as hell.
So, we hangout at the bar, I introduce her to my friends, and she seems to be having a good time. This girl I met a while ago comes up to me and says my name, and I don't remember hers. Great social proof. So, then the HB9 told me she was going to tell the chick that she was sleeping with me as a joke. So, we go up to the bar to get some drinks and I'm like, "what's the first drink you're buying me?" she laughs and says, "If you ever wanna be my girlfriend, Im not gonna have that" so, I said, "I guess chivalry is in order, aye" , she said, "yeah, ill get you back later", which she did, she bought me and a friend shots. We drink at the bar for a few hours and have some nice convo. The bar closes and we eventually end up back at my place.
At this point, we are taking Jager shots (her favorite) with my roommate and friend. Eventually, my roommate and friend leave and we are alone in my room for like 2 hours, til about 5am. I talked to her a bit and she played music videos on my tv, from my computer. I tell yah, all she played was Spears and Aguilera videos, kinda weird, she's 21 years old. I ask her for a massage, and she wasnt having it. But she seemed to be feeling my room, my intelligence, my confidence and everything else. So, she gets done playing videos and I walk her home with a blanket around her, she lives about 500ft from my place. We step into her foyer, she seemed to hesitate as if she was waiting for me to ask her to hug her, but im not sure, so all I said was some smalltalk and "hope you had a good time, and well have to do this again" What do you guys think I should do about this? I can totally tell she digs my intelligence and personality. She's like I wish I knew how to do all you can do. At one point, when I first met her, I asked her to come over and critique my room's decoration. She came in and was wowed, couldnt even give me any pointers for improvement, lol. But she has a boyfriend, (who was away at another school for the weekend) and I want her bad. She's always calling me for computer help, most of the time I blow her off, but sometimes I help. I have given her very direct signs that I like her, talked about relationships with her, she said she has only had one boyfriend. I asked her what her ideal guy was, and she said she didnt have one, she has dated ugly guys with nice personalities and hot guys. What do I do to plant a seed of dissent about her boyfriend and bring her into my arms? heh
I am kinda lacking in the getting girls from being in my room to being in my bed department, I can get them in my room fairly easily.
Here is the back story:
I am a slender confident male who is a computer nerd and in a social fraternity.
She is an athletic female, with a baseball player boyfriend.
I met her through a friend of mine and we have hungout, while I have fixed her computer for free (yes I know, this is a no no). I would say I am an 8/10 in the DJ skills department, and she can see the skills permeating off me, she has even commented on my confidence yesterday, even though helping her for free is semi-AFC. But, whatever, so last nite we went out to the bar, the ***** ended up being an hour and a half late, I waited for her initially, then left to go to the bar. She called me while i was there and her friend dropped her off. She was looking fine as hell.
So, we hangout at the bar, I introduce her to my friends, and she seems to be having a good time. This girl I met a while ago comes up to me and says my name, and I don't remember hers. Great social proof. So, then the HB9 told me she was going to tell the chick that she was sleeping with me as a joke. So, we go up to the bar to get some drinks and I'm like, "what's the first drink you're buying me?" she laughs and says, "If you ever wanna be my girlfriend, Im not gonna have that" so, I said, "I guess chivalry is in order, aye" , she said, "yeah, ill get you back later", which she did, she bought me and a friend shots. We drink at the bar for a few hours and have some nice convo. The bar closes and we eventually end up back at my place.
At this point, we are taking Jager shots (her favorite) with my roommate and friend. Eventually, my roommate and friend leave and we are alone in my room for like 2 hours, til about 5am. I talked to her a bit and she played music videos on my tv, from my computer. I tell yah, all she played was Spears and Aguilera videos, kinda weird, she's 21 years old. I ask her for a massage, and she wasnt having it. But she seemed to be feeling my room, my intelligence, my confidence and everything else. So, she gets done playing videos and I walk her home with a blanket around her, she lives about 500ft from my place. We step into her foyer, she seemed to hesitate as if she was waiting for me to ask her to hug her, but im not sure, so all I said was some smalltalk and "hope you had a good time, and well have to do this again" What do you guys think I should do about this? I can totally tell she digs my intelligence and personality. She's like I wish I knew how to do all you can do. At one point, when I first met her, I asked her to come over and critique my room's decoration. She came in and was wowed, couldnt even give me any pointers for improvement, lol. But she has a boyfriend, (who was away at another school for the weekend) and I want her bad. She's always calling me for computer help, most of the time I blow her off, but sometimes I help. I have given her very direct signs that I like her, talked about relationships with her, she said she has only had one boyfriend. I asked her what her ideal guy was, and she said she didnt have one, she has dated ugly guys with nice personalities and hot guys. What do I do to plant a seed of dissent about her boyfriend and bring her into my arms? heh
I am kinda lacking in the getting girls from being in my room to being in my bed department, I can get them in my room fairly easily.
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But I'm not complaining.... 
