"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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need help getting a girl where I want her- and I'll do the rest

Hit Dat Sht

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A few of my boys are all hyped up about some new chick in school, and I think she's no jen lopez- but just to show them up I'm going to DJ this girl like they've never seen.

I already got her number within meeting her in 5 minutes and she wants to chill this weekend- though she's got flocks of dudes all over her, I don't care too much about that cause I had them all staring at me like a king.

If I had her by myself I'd have no problem, but the only place available to party is a half hour outside town and I'm stumped on how to get her out there, because she wouldn't be able to get a ride home.... is there a way to get her out to this house? Of coarse I could take her on a date, but there would be nowhere to go afterwards and I don't want to get to know her well.

Pointers on getting this ass where I want her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Don't take her to a friggin party, isolate her and take her doing something FUN! Play pool, bowling, like a cool dinner or whatever...

Jennifer Lopez is not attractive btw.
 
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Why do u have to party? Why not go somewhere low-key and lay your rap down and see how much game you got. like kinetic said, isolate her and let the focus be on you!
 

legolas

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Yo man whassup!!

Yo, hittin' a girl just so that your buddies can see you as king and you can show off is a recipe for disaster. Imagine this girl actually found out about it? She'd make you pay oh so badly, depending on how vindictive she feels.

How do you know that she didn't give her phone number to another dude who asked for it. Don't let this fu*k up your life man. if you want to F&D her do it, but at least know what you're getting into.

Peace...
 

Sex0r

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Dude if u wanna get her do it in an orderly fashion and also hook up with her... dun do it to show ur friends that ur the "DJ King" (PRL might feel offended too y'know).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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