Ok im a little new to the DJ thing, but this website is awesome. it has really helped me out with some issues but this one im still stomped on. here is the situation:
I'm a freshman in college and I really want to hook up with girl who I went to high school with and now goes to the same college with me. I dont see her very often because she is always on the move, and when I do see her I can't make a move because she is with one of 2 boys that I know she has at least a crush on. And she spends every waking moment with at least one of these guys. This is where the situation gets complicated. Both of the boys she likes have girlfriends. and both of these guys are good friends of mine. here is where the DJ philosophy works against me. she wants them so badly because she knows she can't have them. These guys have HOT girlfriends (8.5, 9), and I'm very sure that these guys won't break up any time soon. Now every time I try to talk to her online, she ignores me. When I try to talk to her in person, she doesn't contribute much to the conversation and will usually put all of her attention on one of the 2 guys she likes. We have been friends, not that good of friends, but
friends, for about 3 years. We have never hung out much at all and I can never seem to be able to find out where she is going to party before the party is already over. I really want to hook up with this girl but she doesn't seem to have any interest in me and seems to isolate herself so I can't make a move. Some help here would really be appericiated here, thanks DJs.
I'm a freshman in college and I really want to hook up with girl who I went to high school with and now goes to the same college with me. I dont see her very often because she is always on the move, and when I do see her I can't make a move because she is with one of 2 boys that I know she has at least a crush on. And she spends every waking moment with at least one of these guys. This is where the situation gets complicated. Both of the boys she likes have girlfriends. and both of these guys are good friends of mine. here is where the DJ philosophy works against me. she wants them so badly because she knows she can't have them. These guys have HOT girlfriends (8.5, 9), and I'm very sure that these guys won't break up any time soon. Now every time I try to talk to her online, she ignores me. When I try to talk to her in person, she doesn't contribute much to the conversation and will usually put all of her attention on one of the 2 guys she likes. We have been friends, not that good of friends, but
friends, for about 3 years. We have never hung out much at all and I can never seem to be able to find out where she is going to party before the party is already over. I really want to hook up with this girl but she doesn't seem to have any interest in me and seems to isolate herself so I can't make a move. Some help here would really be appericiated here, thanks DJs.