"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need help from guys who have picked up girls at grocery stores and malls

drakeisfire

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I see a lot of cute girls at the grocery stores and malls in my area. Have made some approaches at grocery stores but they have usually been along the lines of "do you know where this is?".

Have a lot of fear about that stuff too because I feel like my area is a smaller city and it isn't exactly NYC so have that fear of judgment when doing it.

Any of you guys have any advice for good openers and ways to approach girls at grocery stores?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wifehunter

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Don't try too hard. Stay relaxed. Don't go out of your way, unless you already have rapport.
 

bigneil

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Other than hot checkout girls, no I have never picked up a girl at the grocery store.

But ironically just yesterday I met the hottest checkout girl I ever saw, age 17.5.

One time a woman in front of me in line flirted like never before, but some old lady shamelessly squeezed her carriage in between us and I never got to say a word to the woman.
 

Masculinity

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I see a lot of cute girls at the grocery stores and malls in my area. Have made some approaches at grocery stores but they have usually been along the lines of "do you know where this is?".

Have a lot of fear about that stuff too because I feel like my area is a smaller city and it isn't exactly NYC so have that fear of judgment when doing it.

Any of you guys have any advice for good openers and ways to approach girls at grocery stores?
1. Ask about food at the store.
2. Ask about recipes.
3. Comment on the food in her cart using a pull and then push.
4. Ask if she works there.
5. Ask where she got something that's in her cart.
6. Ask if she's always so well dressed when she goes grocery shopping or if
that's her thing to meet a guy.
7. Direct approach saying she seems interesting and you wanted to see what's she's like + introduce self.
8. Ask about what she eats that makes her seem so happy and energetic.
9. I can go on and on. No excuses, just make the approach and stop overthinking the perfect situation. It doesn't exists. It will never come.
 
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