"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need help from guys who have picked up girls at grocery stores and malls

drakeisfire

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I see a lot of cute girls at the grocery stores and malls in my area. Have made some approaches at grocery stores but they have usually been along the lines of "do you know where this is?".

Have a lot of fear about that stuff too because I feel like my area is a smaller city and it isn't exactly NYC so have that fear of judgment when doing it.

Any of you guys have any advice for good openers and ways to approach girls at grocery stores?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't try too hard. Stay relaxed. Don't go out of your way, unless you already have rapport.
 

bigneil

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Other than hot checkout girls, no I have never picked up a girl at the grocery store.

But ironically just yesterday I met the hottest checkout girl I ever saw, age 17.5.

One time a woman in front of me in line flirted like never before, but some old lady shamelessly squeezed her carriage in between us and I never got to say a word to the woman.
 

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I see a lot of cute girls at the grocery stores and malls in my area. Have made some approaches at grocery stores but they have usually been along the lines of "do you know where this is?".

Have a lot of fear about that stuff too because I feel like my area is a smaller city and it isn't exactly NYC so have that fear of judgment when doing it.

Any of you guys have any advice for good openers and ways to approach girls at grocery stores?
1. Ask about food at the store.
2. Ask about recipes.
3. Comment on the food in her cart using a pull and then push.
4. Ask if she works there.
5. Ask where she got something that's in her cart.
6. Ask if she's always so well dressed when she goes grocery shopping or if
that's her thing to meet a guy.
7. Direct approach saying she seems interesting and you wanted to see what's she's like + introduce self.
8. Ask about what she eats that makes her seem so happy and energetic.
9. I can go on and on. No excuses, just make the approach and stop overthinking the perfect situation. It doesn't exists. It will never come.
 
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