"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Okay I think I already knwo the answer to this question but...

This girl I was chillen with, was fun we walked around in a park we sat in benches N like cuddled and **** and went to the mall and we layed around on all the little futton and beds and stuff, but like she DID keep mentioning her Ex, like six times and every time, "oh im sorry am I mentioning my ex too much". Now wtf is that. If that's not a "Move-On" sign, what is. Although, the breakup was recent(2 weeks) do i move on, or do i try with this girl again, she seemed to give a few IOI's and such tho. Thanks elder's,

-Bawb!:nervous:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just be assertive and tell her that her ex is towards the bottom of your list of things you would like to hear about. When she starts talking about him, just yawn. Or, if you wanna be more straight forward, tell her you really don't want to hear about it.
 
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I agree with Adam. You don't have to ditch her. Tell her you don't want to talk about her ex. If she runs away you are better of without her, but I'm certain she wont. Have some other girls as options though.
 
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Just be careful. Don't get attached or anything. Sounds like she isn't over him (meaning you're a rebound). What are the details of their break-up?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chances are she is just testing you to see how you respond. No matter what you do make sure you give her no sign that you care.

Rule of thumb when chicks start talking about their ex - pretend they never said anything at all. Ignore it. She will then start questioning where she stands with you (which is a good thing). Wether she is still caught up on him or is testing you makes no difference, as always act as if she is interested and the belief ussually fulfills itself ;)

Hope that helped.
 
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