"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bawb14

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Okay I think I already knwo the answer to this question but...

This girl I was chillen with, was fun we walked around in a park we sat in benches N like cuddled and **** and went to the mall and we layed around on all the little futton and beds and stuff, but like she DID keep mentioning her Ex, like six times and every time, "oh im sorry am I mentioning my ex too much". Now wtf is that. If that's not a "Move-On" sign, what is. Although, the breakup was recent(2 weeks) do i move on, or do i try with this girl again, she seemed to give a few IOI's and such tho. Thanks elder's,

-Bawb!:nervous:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just be assertive and tell her that her ex is towards the bottom of your list of things you would like to hear about. When she starts talking about him, just yawn. Or, if you wanna be more straight forward, tell her you really don't want to hear about it.
 
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I agree with Adam. You don't have to ditch her. Tell her you don't want to talk about her ex. If she runs away you are better of without her, but I'm certain she wont. Have some other girls as options though.
 
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VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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Just be careful. Don't get attached or anything. Sounds like she isn't over him (meaning you're a rebound). What are the details of their break-up?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Chances are she is just testing you to see how you respond. No matter what you do make sure you give her no sign that you care.

Rule of thumb when chicks start talking about their ex - pretend they never said anything at all. Ignore it. She will then start questioning where she stands with you (which is a good thing). Wether she is still caught up on him or is testing you makes no difference, as always act as if she is interested and the belief ussually fulfills itself ;)

Hope that helped.
 
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