"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need help for cardio and BJJ

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Hey dudes...

Im in a bit of a rut. Im currently bulking but i need to improve my cardiovascular health. I need to go the distance during BJJ sparring and matches. Now i could do running,skipping ,swiming but i will lose mass and i dont want that. How can i get fitter cardio health and lose minimal mass?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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muttley said:
Hey dudes...

Im in a bit of a rut. Im currently bulking but i need to improve my cardiovascular health. I need to go the distance during BJJ sparring and matches. Now i could do running,skipping ,swiming but i will lose mass and i dont want that. How can i get fitter cardio health and lose minimal mass?
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cardio makes you lose mass? news to me.
 
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All you need to worry about with cardio is that the extra exercise is burning more caleries and speeding up your metabolism. Logically, eating more caleries can counter that.
 
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Your not gonna become a runt after a little cardio.

Sprints of "Interval training" are good and you won't lose mass.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Shiftkey said:
All you need to worry about with cardio is that the extra exercise is burning more caleries and speeding up your metabolism. Logically, eating more caleries can counter that.
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Yeah, but cardio reduces appetite.
 
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brucevangeorge said:
Yeah, but cardio reduces appetite.
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WHAT?! If it reduces appetite you're doing way too much. I'm sorry, but I don't know anyone who does cardio regularly and doesn't eat like a horse. (myself being a case in point - leg day is the only day I don't feel like eating because I don't do cardio in the morning, I am starving the rest of the week).
 
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Warboss Alex said:
WHAT?! If it reduces appetite you're doing way too much. I'm sorry, but I don't know anyone who does cardio regularly and doesn't eat like a horse. (myself being a case in point - leg day is the only day I don't feel like eating because I don't do cardio in the morning, I am starving the rest of the week).
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Maybe I should have been more specific, but yea that's pretty much what I meant.
 
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