"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NEED HELP!! Fast!!

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Emperiorjack

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These dudes are trying to hekp me out and get me out of the groove and get me a girl. But the way they do it is very punishing to me. At lunch I get time to pick a girl that I would want then they give me two minutes to talk to her. If I don't do it they go over there and and say i like them and basically embarass me. They have embarassed me twice so far and I don't want it to happen again. What I need to know is what is the best way to approach a group of girls sitting down at a table eating lunch?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Make them pick the hottest gal around. Then act completely detached.

The gal will either walk up to you - so you have a free occasion for a convo + and other attractions if you're good.

or she will not come up. Then walk up to her afterwards to "apologize" for your friends, start a convo etc...

The third option is that your friends will chicken out instead of getting to the girl.
 
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Keep it simple!

Hello Dear,

1)Relax
2)Natural apperance - body language
3)Confidence
4)Listen
- 100% Focus to the ladies
- eye contact

Make them feel comfortable with you.

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Just short...

Keep it simple!
 
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If you still have questions even after reading everything in the following link, do a search for "openers", and if you still can't find anything PM me and I'll unlock the thread... but I won't hold my breath for that PM.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb
 
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