"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Emperiorjack

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These dudes are trying to hekp me out and get me out of the groove and get me a girl. But the way they do it is very punishing to me. At lunch I get time to pick a girl that I would want then they give me two minutes to talk to her. If I don't do it they go over there and and say i like them and basically embarass me. They have embarassed me twice so far and I don't want it to happen again. What I need to know is what is the best way to approach a group of girls sitting down at a table eating lunch?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Make them pick the hottest gal around. Then act completely detached.

The gal will either walk up to you - so you have a free occasion for a convo + and other attractions if you're good.

or she will not come up. Then walk up to her afterwards to "apologize" for your friends, start a convo etc...

The third option is that your friends will chicken out instead of getting to the girl.
 

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Keep it simple!

Hello Dear,

1)Relax
2)Natural apperance - body language
3)Confidence
4)Listen
- 100% Focus to the ladies
- eye contact

Make them feel comfortable with you.

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Just short...

Keep it simple!
 

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If you still have questions even after reading everything in the following link, do a search for "openers", and if you still can't find anything PM me and I'll unlock the thread... but I won't hold my breath for that PM.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb
 
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