"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Emperiorjack

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These dudes are trying to hekp me out and get me out of the groove and get me a girl. But the way they do it is very punishing to me. At lunch I get time to pick a girl that I would want then they give me two minutes to talk to her. If I don't do it they go over there and and say i like them and basically embarass me. They have embarassed me twice so far and I don't want it to happen again. What I need to know is what is the best way to approach a group of girls sitting down at a table eating lunch?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Make them pick the hottest gal around. Then act completely detached.

The gal will either walk up to you - so you have a free occasion for a convo + and other attractions if you're good.

or she will not come up. Then walk up to her afterwards to "apologize" for your friends, start a convo etc...

The third option is that your friends will chicken out instead of getting to the girl.
 

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Keep it simple!

Hello Dear,

1)Relax
2)Natural apperance - body language
3)Confidence
4)Listen
- 100% Focus to the ladies
- eye contact

Make them feel comfortable with you.

//

Just short...

Keep it simple!
 

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If you still have questions even after reading everything in the following link, do a search for "openers", and if you still can't find anything PM me and I'll unlock the thread... but I won't hold my breath for that PM.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb
 
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