I'm having some people over for new years eve(not like a party or anything, just some friends are coming over). Well I invited 6 girls (including the one I have my eye on) and my best friend... I was going to invite 2 more guys who are close friends of mine. Well tonight the girl that I like called me and told me that some other guys asked them to do something too and they wanted to know if it was allright if those guys came over too. I told her I'de call those guys tommorow and see what happens. Now theres around 4 of these guys and 1 of them I can't stand and will never invite to my house if my life depended on it, and theres another one who I think the girl that I like has a crush on. I'm friends with these guys, but we never hang out or anything so I'de kind of feel like I'm being used if they do come...I'm only gonna have around 10-12 people over. Should I invite the guys who are my close friends? the ones the girl I like wants me to? or both? Any advice will be great!
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
DJ Girevik
Senior Don Juan
If you don't want the other guys at your house, say "no." Simple as that. Don't give in just cuz you like her, isn't that putting her on a pedestal?
g f l a s h 4 0 0 1
Don Juan
Exactly
Exactly. Just tell her that you don't want to have too many people over.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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Mack Of All Trades
Master Don Juan
Hell no! this plan is doomed to fail. You sound like an AFC so I wouldnt try to outgun these guys.
The way she asked you about bringing some guys with her (possibly a lady player?) sounds like you are already being used and are DEEP in the friends zone.
Basically, if she objects to coming to the party sans her guy friends, then she aint worth inviting.
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Thanks for the advice. I didn't invite the other guys over. I told the girl that if she would rather be with the other guys then she should go to their house. I also told her that I could care less about what she chooses to do.
average frustrated chump
they're all the other guys out there not reading sosuave, the ones that think telling girls about a crush they have on them, buying flowers, and saying yes to every request is the way to get girls
they're all the other guys out there not reading sosuave, the ones that think telling girls about a crush they have on them, buying flowers, and saying yes to every request is the way to get girls
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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I just thought I'de tell you guys how things went. The girls decided to come to my house and we all had a good time, then the guys that I didn't invite tried to scare us or something (they were all running around outside my house looking like dumbasses). I think once I told the girls that I could care less rather they came or not that it made them want to come even more.. I'm not sure why..
Mack Of All Trades
Master Don Juan
Good job, lazarus! I knew you would see the light.
O yea, the reason they probably wanted to come more when you said that you did not care whether they came is that it showed you had a backbone. I think this chick was testing you and you passed.
O yea, the reason they probably wanted to come more when you said that you did not care whether they came is that it showed you had a backbone. I think this chick was testing you and you passed.
jmm854
Master Don Juan
That couldn't be more wrong. Their are plenty of successful DJs in highschools that have never heard the term sosuave.com.
The rest of your description works though, Phrozen, but make no mistake about it, there are a lot of other DJs.