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[donjuanapprentice01]

Alright fellas... Remember that bank teller I was talking about? Well, she just dumped her bf. She added me to msn messenger (I was scared ****less to chat with her though, so I logged off... She was listed as away.)

Well, as you can guess I want to move in. What's the best way of going about this? I'm thinking doing nothing for a week, pretend I don't know jack about her being single now.

I really like this girl so I don't want to **** it up... Which is why I'm asking the best guys online for advice!

 

[Soprano]

on thursday kick up a convo with her man...say hey whats up....start convo....whatever u feel like talkin about...ask her if she's ever eaten a baby tomato in a salad and it's exploded when she bit in and seeds went flying everywhere....say she should let you take her out on a date on ____ night.....say alright cool i'll pick you up at _:__.......end of convo....

dont pretend you dont know about her being single...if she asks (she wont) say a friend told you or something....why would u pretend u dont know? playing games/lieing often comes back to bite you in the ass, especially a little white lie like that that's just pointless with no real payoff

 

[Jblitz59]

Move in Tuesday or Wedsnesday and have a fun conversation, tease her constantly and leave her wanting more. Thats when you suggest more at a date

 

[donjuanapprentice01]

Thanks guys, that's what I plan on doing.... she needs to heal, that's for sure. I'm definitely NOT going to barge in too soon, she has plenty of friends for support, she needs to get it from them right now, not me... not going to be her therapist.

So, I'm going to wait maybe a week, talk to her a bit and gage things and go from there.

 

[Joe Stud]

When they are "wounded" like this, my approach is usually to catch dinner or drinks and catch up. making sure its a "friends" approach makes it more harmless and she wont have the excuse that she doesnt want to jump into another relationship or romance. then... work from there

 

[donjuanapprentice01]

When they are "wounded" like this, my approach is usually to catch dinner or drinks and catch up. making sure its a "friends" approach makes it more harmless and she wont have the excuse that she doesnt want to jump into another relationship or romance. then... work from there

Yep, good idea.. Was thinking along those lines myself... Also like the "friends" approach as you put it. I don't want her to think I'm a vulture.