"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alright fellas... Remember that bank teller I was talking about? Well, she just dumped her bf. She added me to msn messenger (I was scared ****less to chat with her though, so I logged off... She was listed as away.)

Well, as you can guess I want to move in. What's the best way of going about this? I'm thinking doing nothing for a week, pretend I don't know jack about her being single now.

I really like this girl so I don't want to **** it up... Which is why I'm asking the best guys online for advice!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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on thursday kick up a convo with her man...say hey whats up....start convo....whatever u feel like talkin about...ask her if she's ever eaten a baby tomato in a salad and it's exploded when she bit in and seeds went flying everywhere....say she should let you take her out on a date on ____ night.....say alright cool i'll pick you up at _:__.......end of convo....:up:

dont pretend you dont know about her being single...if she asks (she wont) say a friend told you or something....why would u pretend u dont know? playing games/lieing often comes back to bite you in the ass, especially a little white lie like that that's just pointless with no real payoff
 
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Move in Tuesday or Wedsnesday and have a fun conversation, tease her constantly and leave her wanting more. Thats when you suggest more at a date :D
 
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Thanks guys, that's what I plan on doing.... she needs to heal, that's for sure. I'm definitely NOT going to barge in too soon, she has plenty of friends for support, she needs to get it from them right now, not me... not going to be her therapist.

So, I'm going to wait maybe a week, talk to her a bit and gage things and go from there.
 
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When they are "wounded" like this, my approach is usually to catch dinner or drinks and catch up. making sure its a "friends" approach makes it more harmless and she wont have the excuse that she doesnt want to jump into another relationship or romance. then... work from there
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Joe Stud said:
When they are "wounded" like this, my approach is usually to catch dinner or drinks and catch up. making sure its a "friends" approach makes it more harmless and she wont have the excuse that she doesnt want to jump into another relationship or romance. then... work from there
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Yep, good idea.. Was thinking along those lines myself... Also like the "friends" approach as you put it. I don't want her to think I'm a vulture.
 
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