"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need help buying first car, 10k budget

kav_3

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Ok i'm a 20 year old guy and this is going to be my first car. I don't really know much about cars or anything and basically I got around a 10k budget to get a car.

So it needs to be automatic, 4 door, I want something sporty/luxory (doesn't really have to have both), also sometihng that is good on gas , also it can't be too old.

Some cars i've looked at and have thought about was the 04 seabring sedan for 10k fully loaded and 50km, I also like civics, I looked at a 02 pontiac sunfires for around 8-10k, I could also get chrysler(I think it's an oldmobile) intrigue for 10k with 91,000 miles, I was also thinking of getting a acura integra but I could only find 2drs which is no good, but I like cars that look sometihng like that or the civics.

Ok so I don't know if any of these cars are any good or anything, so any reccommendations would be helpful if I should get these or something totally diffeent that would be in my price range so I could try to find it. Also this is 10,00 dollars Canadian.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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doctoroxygen

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You want a Volvo S60. Trust me. There's nothing sportier/more luxurious/safer for the price.
 

TheNewGuy

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doctoroxygen said:
You want a Volvo S60. Trust me. There's nothing sportier/more luxurious/safer for the price.
Sure there is. Audi A6
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bible_Belt

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The problem with stretching your budget is that you end up with a high mileage car that is going to spend time at the mechanic, especially cars made by GM and the other American automakers.

Just get a civic if that's what you like. Buy a low-mileage one from an adult who understands how to care for a car, like giving it regular oil changes. Also, civics probably have timing belts that need changing every 60k or so miles. Look the required maintenance up before you buy, so you can ask the seller what they have had done. This also gives you negotiating leverage in price, ask them to reduce the price if required maintenance is about to come due.
 

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Anything>civic

Audi= ugly
volvo (ones in his price range)= ugly

Mustangs aren't the most reliable (mine's been great), but they're the coolest cars you can get for your budget. I got mine for about $8700 (2000 V6 with under 65,000 miles, black leather, power everything, cd player with premium sound, spoiler, GT hood). Then I put on 18in chromies, tinted the windows, and put a nice alarm system on it for about 3 grand more. That all totals out to just over 10k, which is pretty close to your budget. I think my d.ick grew about an extra inch after I got it too (figuritively speaking of course)...so I gotta recommend that. :rockon:
 

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doctoroxygen said:
For $10,000? Where?
http://audizine.com/forum/showthread.php?t=110883
1999 A4 Quattro Tiptronic
K04 Aftermarket turbo
Heated seats
Bose sound system
Performance (GIAC) chip
Aftermarket intercooler/exhaust
Regular maintenance
$8,600

And you're telling me you can't find a nice stock Audi for under $10,000?

Derek Flint said:
Audi's are crap.
Put an inch of snow on the ground, see where you go in anything other than an Audi.

ValleyDJing said:
Audi= ugly
The B5 generation has the most timeless design I've seen yet.
http://www.motorpulse.com/vehicle_photos/medium/00b9a2055bd624c36978b64c2b532ec3.jpeg
http://www.arabadergisi.com/ab/audi/a4-99-01B.jpg
http://www.olsenhome.com/audi/images/myblack99a4/myblack99a4.jpg
http://www.raleighlist.org/uploads/forsale/20823-1.jpg

Thats ugly?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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blinkwatt

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Everyone put their ego and personal preferences to the side for a second and look at where the posters is coming from.

Dude the best commuter that you can buy PERIOD(unless you have $$$ to spend) is a Civic. They are extremely cheap to maintain and perfect for a young college student. I know some are skeptical of Hyundais but I have a relative who put 25k on her Sonota in a year w/o a single hitch,not one minor thing. Who knows,she could have gotten lucky but at the same time Hyundai is starting to win awards and respect left & right these days.

Sure you can buy something else but lets us reasoning for this,a car isn't a cheap purchase.

Oh yeah after you buy the car then there is the insurance factor,gas and repairs to pay for.

Good luck!
 

Jerry Maguire

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Civic or Corolla would probably be your best bet for a first car.
Old Audi's were reliable when new but as they grow older they will need expensive maintenance.
Wouldn't even consider a Mustang etc.
 

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If your cap is $10k, ease it down to $9k and have $1k for possible repairs, unseen expenses, etc.

So your true cap is $9k minus $500 for decent sound system, another $500 for aftermarket essentials, so suddenly you're sitting at $8000.

Now go look for a car in the $6k - 8k range. You're not going to get anything classy(bmw, audi, benz, caddy, etc) for that price unless its mileage is over 250k, at that point it isn't really worth it.

Better to go with a respectable car that has low kms, something decent under the hood, and a good safety rating.

I'd personally nail a Toyota Supra, or some other small & sporty car. Don't buy something that costs heaps of cash to maintain(a la Jag). When we had one of those, it was in the shop every few weeks. Brand new too.

My car.

Good luck.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Buy a used car from an old person. Those mofo's take excellent care of their cars so they are almost like brand new.
 

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I'll put in a vote for the Toyota Celica. Very affordable, run forever, look nice, cheap maintenance, great gas mileage, and VERY AFFORDABLE.

Is this your own money? If it is, I would definitely just buy a nice used car outright and save the rest for other expenses that come up(and they will, trust me). Cars are for getting from one place to another, so I wouldn't "invest" in one too expensive, especially if you are in college. You can buy something fancy when you got all your ducks in a row, but for now I would suggest that you buy a car that gets the job done and you won't have to worry about "your baby" if something happens to her. Unless you just GOT TO HAVE the ride of your dreams.....
 

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Bible Belt is right that you oughta probably save some money for repairs. Don't spend all 10k.
 
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