"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GloriouslyInsane

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There's these two girls, we'll call them x and y and they know each other (a bit more than acquaintances).I've # closed them both separately and went out (double dating kinda) with each of them couple of times.Now i was out with some buds the other day and they joined our table,kinda ignored them both and whatever.

Point is,is there any ****ing way to move on one of them and be sure noone else will find out(edit: they are both close friends to another girl)? (so i can move on the other one too).

Can you even trust a girl nowadays if you just say some bs like that you have a gf abroad that mutual friends are acquainted with or what?

And lets say i'm meeting one of them shortly.So what gives?

Thanks in advance.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I don't leave things to luck :p.Thing is i wanna choose one of the two..i really do.But they're so different that collectively make my "dream" girl :p
 

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What I was saying, is there is no way in hell, they wont find out about each other. If/when they find out you've been taking the other one out, you're gonna have trouble, that may or may not work to your advantage.
 

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Man you're so pessimistic...the current plan is what i said about the abroad gf.. :p maybe make the one promise.Anyone got an idea? im meeting one in half an hour :p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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