"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need help ASAP!

GloriouslyInsane

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There's these two girls, we'll call them x and y and they know each other (a bit more than acquaintances).I've # closed them both separately and went out (double dating kinda) with each of them couple of times.Now i was out with some buds the other day and they joined our table,kinda ignored them both and whatever.

Point is,is there any ****ing way to move on one of them and be sure noone else will find out(edit: they are both close friends to another girl)? (so i can move on the other one too).

Can you even trust a girl nowadays if you just say some bs like that you have a gf abroad that mutual friends are acquainted with or what?

And lets say i'm meeting one of them shortly.So what gives?

Thanks in advance.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GloriouslyInsane

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I don't leave things to luck :p.Thing is i wanna choose one of the two..i really do.But they're so different that collectively make my "dream" girl :p
 

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What I was saying, is there is no way in hell, they wont find out about each other. If/when they find out you've been taking the other one out, you're gonna have trouble, that may or may not work to your advantage.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Man you're so pessimistic...the current plan is what i said about the abroad gf.. :p maybe make the one promise.Anyone got an idea? im meeting one in half an hour :p
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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