"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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GloriouslyInsane

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There's these two girls, we'll call them x and y and they know each other (a bit more than acquaintances).I've # closed them both separately and went out (double dating kinda) with each of them couple of times.Now i was out with some buds the other day and they joined our table,kinda ignored them both and whatever.

Point is,is there any ****ing way to move on one of them and be sure noone else will find out(edit: they are both close friends to another girl)? (so i can move on the other one too).

Can you even trust a girl nowadays if you just say some bs like that you have a gf abroad that mutual friends are acquainted with or what?

And lets say i'm meeting one of them shortly.So what gives?

Thanks in advance.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't leave things to luck :p.Thing is i wanna choose one of the two..i really do.But they're so different that collectively make my "dream" girl :p
 

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What I was saying, is there is no way in hell, they wont find out about each other. If/when they find out you've been taking the other one out, you're gonna have trouble, that may or may not work to your advantage.
 

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Man you're so pessimistic...the current plan is what i said about the abroad gf.. :p maybe make the one promise.Anyone got an idea? im meeting one in half an hour :p
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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