"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NEED HELP ASAP! Prom after-party, big chance of gettin laid

Ntwadumela

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First, im a virgin :(
Second, im not talking about my prom date, cause shes gonna go home after prom. good thing too, cause it was a pity date, she probably weighs more than me...:mad:

Okay, after prom, theres gonna be a big party. My friend invited me, and knows im a virgin. He said hes bringin an extra girl and is gonna get me laid. He also said she would like me and would do it too. (im not ugly or fat or anything, just afc)

K, here is where it gets hard(not my penis), I dont know many people who are goin, so im not sure if im gonna be with a crew or not. I dont want to be alone at the party, but if i am, what do i do? Do i just go strait to her at the beginning of the party?

And how do i introduce myself or talk to her if we both know we came to the party for sex? I know i cant just say, hey, lets go ****! And how would i start makin out with her if i never met her? How do i ask her if she wants to go to a room? I also dont konw when i should pull out the condom and put it on. and when and how should i actually put it in?(like how much forplay or whatever) Also, what should i do if i *** and she hasnt yet? do i stop? And what do i do when we are done, do we stay in there or get out of the room?

Please help guys. Ive been waitin forever to get laid. This might be the biggest night of my life. Please help soon, proms next week. Im sooo close and dont want to screw it up...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LikRetsam

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Top right " The DJ Bible"
 

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learn from your friends
 

Ntwadumela

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sorry guys, didnt know i sounded that bad.

i talked to my friend, and he said you dont need a damn script or anything. Just go with it...

i guess its that simple huh...
 

Ntwadumela

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ah ha ha ha haaaa!! im just drinkin and readin my old posts. Man this **** is hilarious! ****, i think i was 17 when this happened. Yeah, i didn't get laid that night. ha haha...damn, its funny to see how bad you were, and kind of makes you feel good to see how you improved. dear god im so glad i aint thinkin like this during my college years. id be one sad panda....ha ha.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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