"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need Help Asap Please!!!!!!!!!

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I dont want to get into heavy details but theres this girl i really really love and we've been getting along great.... yesterday I lied to her, it wasn't a big lie... just about where I was, but I hate lying and I confessed. She seems to want to forgive me but you know, things are kinda odd. What can I do??? How can I make things better? Im honestly so sorry i lied to her and i told her this, but what else can I do to make things right again? I will never lie to her or anyone again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NExt her dude.....try pick up a new chick...and have fun with that. I mean don't be totaly inlove with girls lke that...it's not cool . well unless u'v been going out for like a year or two!
Just have fun with it man....act as if you didn't do any thing wrong..like who cares if you lied a bit...**** i'v kissed a chick b4 and never told my girlfriend about it..so s'all good! any ways have fun with it..and don't be fallin inlove to fast cuz it's Lust..it's not really love!
 
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although confessing might make you feel better, it makes her feel worse and can cause her to lose faith in you
 
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Two things:

1. Don't lie!

2. If you lie, don't confess!


Don't do anything and never talk about it with her again!!
 
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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Two things:

1. Don't lie!

2. If you lie, don't confess!


Don't do anything and never talk about it with her again!!
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Amen! When I read this post I wanted to heave. I wonder how old this guy is. He doesn't sound like the most masculine of young men that's for sure.

That's why this board may help him discover his manly side. I could almost see tears flowing when I read his words. *gag*

Uhh Sorry to the originator. I was just amazed that you would be on this site posting like that. I mean no diss. but this site is for learning how to be a don juan which as the legend or story goes was a serious player even if only fictional. Players lie, cheat and do whatever they must in order to score.

But I realize it's not about the scoring but about bettering yourself so definately listen to PRL here.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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