"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need help, almost got laid.

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JonyJC

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I'm not new around here I've been reading lots of stuff from the bibble, but never posted.

So I've been dating a girl for one week and today I brought her to my place, things were going fine I started kissing her bringing her to my bedroom started taking clothes BUT when time to take the pants off arrives she says no. Wtf?

She even touched my c**k and kind of masturbated me (at least she tried) but she never took off her pants, I tried to do it many times with always the same result, a round NO and a replacement of my hand to the right position

Then I just stayed there for an hour or so just kissing her and being
masturbated.
Do you guys know what could be happening?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you're really gunning to get laid, this is basically how to deal with that bullsh1t:

A. You escalate(always), things are going good but you get some LMR(last minute resistance).

B. Here is what makes or breaks you... For the record, ALWAYS expect LMR, it's a girls way of proving to herself that she isn't a slut(like, worst fear ever)...Anyways, as soon as she brushes you away, thats when you have to act. Stop kissing her and do something else. Go to your computer and show her pictures or something. Show her your awesome music selection. Don't get down about her LMR and don't talk about it. She'll be wondering what the fvck just happened, and realize what the consequences of her actions are. If she actually does like you, next time you escalate, you'll be in control and you'll get laid.

C. Always, pull back and start over when you get LMR. Some guys say to just "keep trying, persist, etc" but that shows no finesse.

Like fishing, you have to reel in and cast again and again and again. Be persistent, yes, but don't let her take control. She doesn't want that, nor should you. She tries to take control, you take it a step further.

D. Or, she could just be on her period :)
 
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