"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need help, almost got laid.

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I'm not new around here I've been reading lots of stuff from the bibble, but never posted.

So I've been dating a girl for one week and today I brought her to my place, things were going fine I started kissing her bringing her to my bedroom started taking clothes BUT when time to take the pants off arrives she says no. Wtf?

She even touched my c**k and kind of masturbated me (at least she tried) but she never took off her pants, I tried to do it many times with always the same result, a round NO and a replacement of my hand to the right position

Then I just stayed there for an hour or so just kissing her and being
masturbated.
Do you guys know what could be happening?
 

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If you're really gunning to get laid, this is basically how to deal with that bullsh1t:

A. You escalate(always), things are going good but you get some LMR(last minute resistance).

B. Here is what makes or breaks you... For the record, ALWAYS expect LMR, it's a girls way of proving to herself that she isn't a slut(like, worst fear ever)...Anyways, as soon as she brushes you away, thats when you have to act. Stop kissing her and do something else. Go to your computer and show her pictures or something. Show her your awesome music selection. Don't get down about her LMR and don't talk about it. She'll be wondering what the fvck just happened, and realize what the consequences of her actions are. If she actually does like you, next time you escalate, you'll be in control and you'll get laid.

C. Always, pull back and start over when you get LMR. Some guys say to just "keep trying, persist, etc" but that shows no finesse.

Like fishing, you have to reel in and cast again and again and again. Be persistent, yes, but don't let her take control. She doesn't want that, nor should you. She tries to take control, you take it a step further.

D. Or, she could just be on her period :)
 
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